Coming Out
The Conundrum Even after proclaiming my preferred pronouns, few people had come on board. Or rather, I’d made little effort to change the status quo. People had no way of […]
Tag Archives: passing
Testosterone: Our Rocky Relationship
The Break Up Back in early June, I was giving up on T for good – or at least, “indefinitely” – because it wasn’t working out. The day-to-day mental torture […]
Slip and Switch
Switching Switching jobs (or schools or towns) is probably the best opportunity one gets to make any sort of big change, especially something like name and pronouns. I’ll admit it […]
Legal Gender Change
Thought Bubbles For almost a year I have been contemplating a legal gender change. It all started with a mischievous exploration. My girlfriend has a Green Card, and I don’t, […]
Illusions
What I find fascinating is that, when presented with missing information, given a lack of evidence, or even evidence to the contrary, people desperately cling to their initial assumptions. And […]
Testosterone: 4.5 Months
If you’re smart, you’ll notice that the title of the post says 4.5 months, even though it has been 5 months since I started T. Shortly after the last update […]
Assumptions
A Story “Does your school have a band you can play in?” asked my unsuspecting drum teacher. I’ve been taking drum lessons for nearly a year now (though I’ve been […]
Transitioning At Work
First Exactly three years, I started my first real job. Right at the very same time I started binding. The problem was that this job was in New York, and […]
Testosterone, part 2
This is the continuation to Testosterone, part 1 (cause this is part 2, and it comes after 1). The Ideal If I could have it my way, I would definitely […]
Testosterone, part 1
The Curiosity For the past few weeks I’ve been doing a bit of research regarding testosterone. I don’t know what prompted this seemingly sudden interest in T, but perhaps this […]
